The guy I am currently talking to has begged me not to write about this. He also threaten to find my blog so he can keep tabs on what I am writing about. I really do not want him to follow me because I feel like what I am discussing is personal. I know that statement is crazy but there will be times where I will talk about him or other guys and I do not want him in my business.
As you probably guessed, this post was inspired by the current guy I am talking to. We were talking about different sexual experiences people have had in their past. This led me to ask him what makes a girl the best. He said it depends on a lot of factors including if he really cares about the girl, how sexually active she has been (her experience), and if he knows she is sacrificing some of her morals to please him. Sure enough all of the variables he listed are important but unlike him I feel the final deciding factor is whether or not a girl is capable of making him climax and how great it was.
My way of thinking verses his, has led me not to want to do anything sexually with him. He has a lot more experience than me. I am still a virgin and although he started later than most guys, he still has a wrap sheet. Knowing this, I find myself to insecure to even try to do anything with him. My best friend hates to hear this excuse from girls because she said there is no such thing as being bad. But I do know a girl for whatever can lack what it takes to be better than the last.
How would you feel if your boyfriend admitted you were not as good as girls from his past? Would it make it better if he rated you high up there but just not at the top. I would be hurt. I guess depending on the situation he may be willing to teach you. This is definitely an issue I am still figuring out how to and how I would handle.
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