A Wierd Stage

As of late when I have been going out, the youngest man who has hit on me has been in his late 20s. Seeing how I have not yet graduated from college, I am trying to determine what is the oldest person I should/would date.

Sometimes I feel I am limited to dating only college-aged guys, meaning no one older than 22 makes the cut. This theory would be okay if I attended a traditional school where most people lived on campus until they were at least juniors. However, at my university, most people commute and the few people who start off living on campus leave after their freshman year. Therefore, the guys I meet in my Residence Hall gets younger each year. This has caused me to talk to guys who were younger than me and tended to act very immature.

So, I decided to give older men a chance. But, the question I have been trying to figure out, is how old is too old. When it comes to older men sometimes I feel like quite a few are trying to lecture me. I understand they are established in their career but that does not give them the right to talk to me like a child. Then, some men are just too old for me to even give them a chance. It is creepy. I often wonder what they are lacking that women of their own age do not want them. Then, how much do we really have in common. I am still getting use to drinking and going to the club whereas they should be focusing on marriage and 401k's. Ha ha.

The stage I am in right now reminds me of when someone is 20. They are out of their teenage years but to young to do some things. I hope I can figure out a answer to the age limit or lack there of in my dating world. Until the, I am still trying to figure it out.