The Perfect Gift for Him/Gift Ideas

With so many birthdays and Holidays coming up it is time to start thinking about gifts. This is something I have always struggled with.

The current guy I am talking to has a birthday coming up in about a week. We have only been talking for 2 consecutive months so I was really struggling on what I should get him. I asked several of my friends and they all had different ideas. Some said clothes and others said clothes were for comfort. Some said alcohol but he is 28. So, alcohol is not that exciting anymore.

After about two weeks of discussing my dilemma with my friend, who has been in a relationship for the last 5 years and who has done every gift possible, she told me to look for the signs of what he is really interested in and the perfect gift will come to me. I completed doubted this because nothing had come to me.

But, this weekend I was browsing the internet and I thought about how excited he was when we went to church about an engraved bible his mother had given him almost nine years ago. Then, it hit me. Something engraved would be totally perfect. He is a working man so I think a engraved pen or money/card clip would be great. It is cost efficient which is very important because we have not been talking that long.

Other great ideas:
Custom Coupon Book- Simply and wallet efficient, this would be considered a thoughtful gift. Coupons could include anything from dinner and a movie, bowling night, home cooked meal, and/or full body massage done by you at home. This is perfect for a couple who has just started dating or for a couple who has been dating for a while. Be sure to include things in the coupon book he would love and you would enjoy.

Picture Frame of the two of you- Another affordable idea that is perfect for a new or older couple.

All About Us Book: I saw this book for the first time when I was 10 at Borders. At the time I did not have anyone to complete it with and I still do not. Ha ha ha. This is perfect for a couple who has been dating a while and have a lot of past experiences together. When doing the book together, one can reflect and dream of their future while bonding.

Memory Book/Scrapbook- Most men have played sports and have plenty of pictures and articles laying around about their time as a star athlete. The only problem is they will not be able to find them in a few years. So, they will truly love a scrapbook of their greatest accomplishments in one book with your creative touch.

Man Mani and Pedi- Send him to the spa. This treat can fit in all budgets. Go with him or let him have some alone time while being pampered.

Massage- Depending on your budget, you can treat you guy to a trip to Saks Fifth Avenue's spa or to a local massage school where students will be doing the massages, which will equal a fraction of the price.

Wine Tastings: Look in the newspapers for wine tastings! Sometimes they are free at local festivals in your city.

Local Concerts: There are a lot of local acts in your community. Check the out and usually cost a lot less then seeing celebrities perform when they come to your city.

Cuff Links: There is nothing like a nice business shirt finished off with matching cuff links. This is perfect for a guy who is getting ready to enter the work force or already works a 9 to 5.

Sports Game tickets

Diamond earrings- Look for deals on jewelry during the Holiday season. Macys always has there jewelry on sale.

Tailored Made Shirt- This is probably my favorite idea on the list and if my boo and I make it to Christmas this will be his gift. Talk about upgrading your boo, his mind will be blown away when you treat him to getting a custom made dress/business shirt. The shirt will be initialed with his initials and comes with a matching tie and cuff links. This usually runs about $125 up to $500. This is a experience he will never forget. There is nothing like having your clothes specifically designed for you.